You may be thinking I’m a little late to the party by doing a post on setting intentions for the new year and well its mid January?
I don’t disagree with you.
My thinking is that for the majority of those who have already decided to forgo their January 1st proclamation by the 15th, this blog may support you in resetting your intention, now that the hullabaloo has quieted substantially.
For the last 3 years I’ve started the year by sharing the word I’ve chosen to inspire, empower and move me through the year.
In 2014, I chose a pair of words: Fluidity & Fluid
In 2015, I chose: Fluent
In 2016, I chose: Thrive
In January 2016, I wrote how a thriving year would feel for me on December 31, 2016.
I decided to feel what it would feel like to have:
Thrived in feeling gratitude and feeling grateful;
Been connected to a Thriving Community;
Thrived in all my relationships (the one with myself included);
Made nurturing decisions about health that supported my overall being thriving;
Exponential growth in feeling Joy and being creative;
Thrived in being able to reflect and learn;
Having had a chronic case of “In-flow-enza”;
Flourished in being open to help and being a helpful spirit.
And when I looked back at my year I can honestly say I can tick all those boxes on how I felt the energy of “Thrive” at the close of 2016.
The best part of manifesting anything is to feel what it feels like to have that “thing” now. When we are looking at the long game over 12 months, or over 52 weeks or over 365 days, it can be quite a challenge to see how you are going to accomplish your resolution.
So I choose and invite others to reverse engineer what it looks and feels like to have achieved, accomplished and have manifested.
When you can describe what it looks like, feels like, tastes like etc and as you do so you are able to conjure up and own all of that with all of your senses, magic can happen.
By engaging in and describing with clarity all of the ingredients and being connected to FEELING what it feels like to have achieved, integrated, manifested, acquired, released, or whatever the best word for you to use, the heavy lifting is done. From that place of FEELING as if you have already succeeded that is where the door of opportunity opens to let inspired action come into our lives and also makes it easy for the Universe to deliver.
This year I chose a word that is defined as being soft, strong and flexible at the same time.
It is possible that when I focused on the vibrant energy of thriving, that at times throughout 2016 I became weighted down with the effort of trying to keep that up. I saw that in my body, with feeling heavy and gaining weight, and in my mind with heavy or complex thinking. Therefore it became more effort than effortless at times. Throughout the year I didn’t have a full on energy of Thrive, however when I reset my focus and my feeling the bounce back to what that looked and felt like was easy.
The last quarter of 2016 felt effortless and I felt a definite shift. Which is and was evident in my body, letting go of the extra weight and in my mind, having let go of the jumbled thinking and de-cluttering my mind and choosing more consciously where I was investing my thought energy.
Choose a word that evokes an energy that feels good for you.
If you are wanting to lose weight in 2017, is it possible that “feeling lighter” may be an easy way to connect with what weighing less would look and feel like?
If you are wanting to pay off debt, is it possible that “feeling abundant or feeling prosperous” would be more energizing?
You may think that it is simply semantics, and perhaps it is. Its possible that we may have an accumulated negative attachment to the words “diet” or the phrase “lose 20 pounds”; or “budget”.
Looking at a different way to describe what it is you want, may allow you to be more open about how you feel about your intention and more creative in the execution.
Choosing my word as “supple“, serves a couple purposes.
- It is not a word that you commonly hear in everyday language.
- I have a sensory connection to it, it has a tactile feel to it.
- Since its not something I hear often it is a great trigger to check in.
Checking in for me is how that word and its accompanied energy relates to all areas of my life.
When I use Supple as my Center or Core Energy I can see how feeling that way will affect the other 8 key areas of my life.
I can also fast forward to December 31st, 2017 and reflect to today on how being, feeling and living in a supple way showed up in those areas.
How can being soft, strong and flexible affect those other areas? That’s for me to create for myself.
How can feeling lighter (losing weight) or feeling abundant (paying off debt) affect those areas? That’s for you to create?
By jumping ahead in time, we can preset what the evidence will look like. That the center word & energy we have chosen to bring into our life in a more conscious way has influenced, infused, and or impacted us throughout the year.
YOU get to choose. YOU get to choose how your resolution fits, feels and shows up. YOU get to choose how to engage the energy. YOU get to choose if this will feel hard or easy.
Have fun with what you want the year, week or today to feel like. Take ownership of what you are intending or resolving for yourself and your life.
Strike a power pose and proclaim your Power Word for 2017!!
[Feel free to share what you are intending in the comments, I’d love to hear & support you!!]